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You don’t have to give advice

For years I’ve had a problem that I have always considered a huge character flaw.  Almost always, whenever I give someone advice they don’t act on it.  I get a fairly positive response to my advice from the person who “asked”, but it’s rarely ever acted upon.

I really like seeing other people become successful, so this is really difficult for me.  It’s at times incredibly hard not to take personally.  To this day I struggle with the idea that I have no ability to influence and empower others.

Of course, that’s not exactly true.  I’m better some days than others, certainly – but a lot of these situations I find myself in isn’t so much my response as it is recognizing the needs of others.

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